http://save-my-marriage-now.com/blog Save your Marriage Before it Falls Apart Forever Thu, 04 Nov 2010 13:48:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://save-my-marriage-now.com/blog/save-your-marriage-alone/comment-page-1/#comment-32 Princeton Thu, 04 Nov 2010 13:48:59 +0000 http://save-my-marriage-now.com/blog/?p=107#comment-32 I am in this position. Wife cheated and all indications are that she has no interest in saving the marriage. Since March (upon discovering the affair), I have read multiple books, go online, seeing a profesional therapist, in EAP... you name it, I am trying it. The good news is, I have looked in the mirror and saw things I did that caused the affair. However, I do not accept 100% responsibility. After all, it was her decsion to get physical with another man. I am lonley, sad, discouraged etc. etc. At the end of the day, I think my wife beleives that I am the best guy for her and my family. I am, thru my education and therapy, actually a better man than I was when we fell in love. Yet, I think my wife is afraid to put in the work to save it. For those in my situation, as much as it sucks and boy does it suck, I view each day as an opportunity to save my marriage. I can only control what I can control. I am thankful I get to spend time with the woman I love and my kids. The outcome may be in doubt but becoming a better man is a good thing... never quit!. Words of encouragement welcome... I am in this position. Wife cheated and all indications are that she has no interest in saving the marriage. Since March (upon discovering the affair), I have read multiple books, go online, seeing a profesional therapist, in EAP… you name it, I am trying it. The good news is, I have looked in the mirror and saw things I did that caused the affair. However, I do not accept 100% responsibility. After all, it was her decsion to get physical with another man. I am lonley, sad, discouraged etc. etc. At the end of the day, I think my wife beleives that I am the best guy for her and my family. I am, thru my education and therapy, actually a better man than I was when we fell in love. Yet, I think my wife is afraid to put in the work to save it. For those in my situation, as much as it sucks and boy does it suck, I view each day as an opportunity to save my marriage. I can only control what I can control. I am thankful I get to spend time with the woman I love and my kids. The outcome may be in doubt but becoming a better man is a good thing… never quit!. Words of encouragement welcome…

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